Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Sinterklaas Nostalgia

It's almost that time of the year again... The month where the Geenens almost go bankrupt on Sinterklaas, 2 kids' birthdays, and Christmas! 

Sinterklaas makes his arrival in Holland around the 15th of November each year. Starting on his arrival date, and until his birthday on the 5th of December, children put their shoes out by the door in hopes that the zwarte pieten will fill their shoes with small presents and candies. 

Well, let me tell you, folks... twenty days is a really long time to have random shoes and pepernoten crumbs laying around the house. 

Not to mention, the children wake up before the roosters crow to see if they've hit the jackpot or not. Which means Rob and I are woken by excited shreeks of  joy or screaming over who got more pepernoten. 

Ahem... I digress

While I love the Dutch culture, and carrying on Dutch traditions in our home, I also love being able to "edit" them a bit since we live 5,000 miles away and the kids don't know the difference.

That being said, Sinterklaas did not make his arrival until 1 week later this year, and he will be celebrating his birthday 1 week earlier. Which means that I only have one week of vacuuming every morning :) 

Last night at dinner Max said to me, "mommy, do you remember that time in Holland when I dressed up like a zwarte piet? I wish I could do that again some time!" Thankfully the little pieten (ahem, tante (aunt) Esther) heard his plea!

This morning the kids were thrilled with their new costumes!

Max was really excited, he just had difficulty producing a "normal" smile at 06:30 this morning!


Since I didn't have time to do a whole photo shoot this morning, Max put on his costume again to let me see how excited he was. With his pajamas on this morning, I didn't realize how revealing the costume was! Perhaps Mama Piet should have given Lucas the pietenpak and Max the Sinterklaas costume! Oops! 

Either way, the children are happy which means I am happy! Rob will be travelling home this weekend to celebrate pakjesavond (Sinterklaas's birthday) with us. Before I go, I would like to leave you all with a little bit of nostalgia from pakjesavond 2008. This is a video I made for Rob while he was in Afghanistan. Enjoy!




Sunday, November 25, 2012

Back By Popular Demand...

I'm sorry. I know, it's been forever since I've blogged. Life has had a funny way of taking up all of my free time this year. 

If you know us at all, you know this past year and a half has been a challenge to say the least. I don't think I can thank our families and true friends that have supported us through this journey enough. We truly could not have done it without your support!

Alas, as all things once begin, they must also come to an end. We are thrilled to say that the Geenens are finally moving on! Rob started his new job in Lafayette, Louisiana on the first of this month. So far, he is really enjoying it. A fresh start, friendly colleagues, and a positive work environment have done him a world of good. The man I married is finally coming back to life, and for this I am so thankful!

The kids are doing fabulously. Max played soccer this season for Enterprise Futbol Club, and Lucas was a great soccer brother!




The kids are also enjoying their last few weeks at their school


Max's Kindergarten Class


Fire Safety Day (Can you spot Max? haha!)



Lucas's First Day of School


He was truly excited ;)


Although we've had a crazy schedule since Rob came back to the U.S. in October, we have tried enjoy as much quality family time as possible. Mid-October we enjoyed a long weekend in Panama City (my lovely birthday gift from MiMi & Opa!) 


Crab Hunting


Lucas didn't have a problem adjusting to beach life!


The resort we stayed at had an indoor water park-- the kids loved it!


Carefree :)


My siblings, I love them!


A family picture, and everyone looked (normal) on the first try!

We have also visited the pumpkin patch. The whole year I had envisioned these beautiful pictures of my well-dressed kids sitting at the pumpkin patch. Since October was slightly insane, we ended up taking them after school one day. When we picked the boys up from school that day, Lucas had dirt all over his face and was tired since he hadn't napped, and Max was whining about being hungry (what's new?). At that point, I knew I would never get Christmas-card-quality pictures out of a day like this!


After one failed attempt at a photo shoot, the older boys went off into the corn maze for a break. Rob was cheating by having Max look over the corn walls ;)


Lucas didn't get to go in the corn maze, but enjoyed the free ride on Papa's neck even better!


This is from photo shoot part II. Sigh.... sometimes you just have to roll with the punches!


The best picture of the day. Excuse Max's strange smile. He has lost three teeth on the bottom and feels the need to show everyone this when he smiles. Not quite the memories I was expecting to make that day, but it was memorable nonetheless :)

To add to our crazy October we headed down to Lafayette, Lousiana to look for a house. On the way we stopped at the USS Alabama in Mobile, AL. 

The boys loved exploring the big ship!


My husband is quickly becoming an American (and I think I might be in a lot of trouble with him for posting this picture!)


Rob enjoyed showing the boys how things worked on the boat


and Max made himself at home!

Our house hunt was successful, and this will be our first home in Louisiana! (If you are a close friend or family, look for our new address in your Christmas cards!)



After we came back from Louisiana, it was time to take the boys out trick-or-treating for Halloween! We went with a pirate theme this year. Lucas's costume is Max's old costume from Carnaval in Holland!

After the craziness of October it was time to seriously get back to work. Dr. Valkyrie (my former professor and mentor) have been working on a presentation for the Alabama Counseling Association (ALCA) Annual Conference since June. In addition to this presentation, I presented my research proposal at the conference.



This is my "baby." Many late nights, chairs thrown against the wall (just kidding), and tears (yes, those were for real) later, I assembled a research proposal that I intend to take to graduate school. During the poster session, many asked which doctoral program I was in, and one university even offered me grant money to continue this project. I'm bragging, I know, but I'm quite pleased with the responses I had!


The next day of the conference Dr. Valkyrie and I presented our content session. We weren't sure how many people to expect, but the room quickly filled and we had a great session!

This past week we celebrated Thanksgiving. It was so nice to celebrate with the whole family this year! We sure do have a lot to be thankful for!


Now it's time for Rob to head back to LA (Louisiana, not Los Angeles!) and in the next three weeks Sinterklaas will visit our house, our youngest will turn 3(!!), I will graduate, we will have a birthday party for the boys, and then we will move. Phew! I am exhausted just thinking about it all! For now I am going to enjoy a couple more hours with my sweet husband. I hope you all have had a wonderful holiday!




Sunday, April 8, 2012

Happy Easter!

It's Easter!


The boys enjoyed searching for Easter eggs this morning


This was Lucas's first year to be able to help search for eggs


Our cheesy big bunny


The search is on!


Big brother helping little brother :)


Our little bunny :) 


Our boys, we are so proud of them!


Happy Easter from our family to yours!

Tuesday, March 13, 2012

C'est la vie

I haven’t been good at keeping up with the blog lately. Some days I am full of thoughts I would like to share with the entire world, and other days are spent reflecting in solitary silence. The words that I would like to share are most likely ones that would get me in trouble. If you know me, you know I am very opinionated and am (usually) not afraid to share my opinions. However, given the delicacy of our ongoing situation, I’ve learned that it’s best if I keep the known truths and opinions to myself.

I would love to tell you all that life is grand, and that after 10 months of hell things are finally getting back to normal. But that’s not the case, not yet, and maybe never. I am not ready to share the specifics of what is going on, but I can tell you that life is getting better. We have recently had a few positive breakthroughs and life is a little sunnier than it once was.

It’s a scary thing, to have other people determine what your future is going to be. Whatever our new future is, it will not be the same as the life we once had, but it will also not be any worse as long as we are together.
It has become a luxury to have my husband home, and we are thankful to be together every moment. I’ve spent the last few months doing a lot of soul searching. My motto in life, as cliché as it may be, is that all things happen for a reason. I’ve taken away a lot of life lessons from this experience. If nothing else, I appreciate life more, my children, my husband, my marriage, my family. I’ve learned who my real friends are, the ones that were just there when I needed them, not the ones who just wanted to spread gossip. I’ve learned that not all people can be trusted, and sometimes bad things do happen to good people.  

Days like today I just want to SCREAM at the universe, “IT’S ENOUGH! I’VE LEARNED SO MUCH! YOU CAN GIVE US OUR LIVES BACK NOW!” Then I remind myself that there is a plan, and I cannot always be in control of the plan or the outcome.  So for today, I will just stop and breathe and enjoy the moment because we have so much to be thankful for!

Enough depressing garbage… I am sure you all are much more interested in hearing about the good stuff J

Lucas has become quite a character. He is not afraid to tell you what he wants, and loves to goof off with his older brother. He is doing well in “school,” but his teacher sent home a typed note the other day stating that Lucas had very.bad.behavior one afternoon, and that we need to sit down and discuss this with him. The idea of sitting down with my two year old and having a very.serious.discussion. with him makes me laugh!

Max has become an outstanding student. He is the top reader in his class, and has become quite good at arithmetic. He marks the days with his spider-man calendar and there are big circles where he has written “PAPA HOME!” So sweet. He started soccer again last week. This year he is playing up a level, with the 6-7 year olds, and guess what? Yes, he is still the tallest on his team!

Rob is continuing to fight the good fight. His strength never ceases to amaze me. I’m so happy to have him at home now, and I have developed such a deep respect for single moms. It’s not easy!

I haven't been taking many pictures lately, but I will share a few of my favorites over the past few months 

Me and Max in North Carolina for Christmas



Lucas building at the Children's Museum in Winston-Salem, NC



The perfect size! (At the Children's Museum)



New Years Eve @ home



Sinterklaas brought Max and Lucas a new swing





Our lazy piglets hanging out during Christmas break. Proof that they can be sweet together!




 
Spring 2011
 Spring 2012

Our Soccer Star!




Lucas and Papa, Halloween 2011